yesterday i brought mom to the hospital. today she is dead. i am still trying to understand what has happened and cycle though so many emotions all at once. so much destroyed in such a small window of time… the fragility of life just frightens me to no end at this point.
we were called by a group of people who asked for us to donate some of mom’s bones and skin, which we agreed to, because we felt she would have wanted to help others. her organs were not suitable for donation, but she will be able to help people with cancer, and burn victims.
everything is so very weird right now, and its hard for me to put this into words.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
Oh Nimil ….. I’m so sorry sweetie!!! *big squeeze*
I can’t even imagine the state you ate in right now. Just try to take it one step at a time and don’t allow yourself to become to overwhelmed. It will take time to grieve and adjust to live without her, but you are a strong woman and I know you’ll pull through stronger.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help and if you need an ear I’ve got two!
Xoxo
I am so sorry, Nimil! *Hugs you tight!* I understand, well to a point. I did this almost three years ago with my step father and dad. Stop, breathe and take the time you need. If you need anything just either grab me on twitter, email or in SL. I will do what I can to help you. Do not be afraid to lean on your friends right now. My heart hurts for you and I am here if you need. (Well, even if you don’t need.)
its been an awful string of deaths since 2009. dad died in december 09, pap pap (my mom’s father) died in december of 10, and now mom is gone.
i’m sorry i didn’t respond to you on sl, i just basically logged in to clear out messages and run away.
It’s okay. I knew something was up and was just going to tell you if you needed anything to let me know. I will send you an IM in world to check on you or twitter you. That is a lot to go through. Just as long as you know I am just a twitter, email or IM away if you need anything.
I am so sorry *hugs*
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I am so sorry… you’re definitely in my thoughts.
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I’m so very sorry hun. I know all too well how much it hurts to lose both parents. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to get in touch with me.
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Sorry for your loss Nimil, hope you remain strong. Sending my prayers.
No words right now can provide the comfort you need but regardless I am so sorry for your loss. *hugs*
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i lost my dad in 2006, and not a day goes by that I don’t miss him. Saying that I am sorry for your loss is simply not enough, love.
You know where I am. Don’t hesitate.
Nimil, I am so, so sorry. I don’t even know what to say. I hope that you are okay. Please take care of yourself, hun.
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Ugh, I’m really very sorry to hear of your loss, and the others in the past years too
I am so sorry for your loss hope you are ok x
I’m so sorry
Wow.
*HUGS* I really do not know what to say except I am so sorry to hear about your mom.. You are in my thoughts.